is she dating material?
well that depends on the guy does it not? I had a best mate that was unable to father children, he married a woman with 3 because he wanted a family.
Myself in all my dating i dated a few women with children. After a while i found i just could not deal with raising someone elses children when i was unable to raise my own and decided it was best all round to limit the dating field to ladies with grown up children or those who had none.
In no way were they considered a trap, a future child support risk etc, some of them were looking for new daddy for the kids and i just knew that guy was not me.
I hope she finds a guy who thinks she and the kids are the best package on earth...
Oz